the other is physical/life sustaining/concrete.

I hate to say it, but I won’t get into too much detail about it, but my mom's mother, one of my grandmas was so mean, hateful, spiteful, hated men, kids, and everything that came into contact with her. She lived in California and then moved to Ohio her last 5–6 years of life. She took what was a really decent family/household and literally tore the family apart, she was really negative, nothing you did would ever please her. But I felt a ton of bricks leave when she died, I mean good riddance the wicked witch is dead! I have no problem exposing my hatred for the way she broke our family apart, like really deep-seated issues that extend into late adult life.

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